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Authentic Connection

Explore what it truly means to love and be loved. Dive into relationship dynamics, intimacy, attachment, and the art of connection. Discover how self-awareness transforms how you relate—to your partner, your family, and the world.

Moms Have Needs Too: Self Care, Mom Guilt and the Power of Friendship

In the modern world of motherhood, where expectations and pressures run high, it’s time to have an open conversation about the needs of mothers themselves. In this article, I aim to explore why tending to mothers is just as crucial as caring for their children.

Escaping the Trap of Feeling Sorry For Others

Discover the consequences of feeling sorry for others and how it can hinder your relationships. Learn how to escape this trap by embracing empathy and fostering genuine connections that go beyond sympathy.

The Dark Side of Compromise in a Relationship (And What to Do Instead)

Compromise has long been regarded as a key tool for resolving conflicts and reaching agreements in relationships. However, while compromise in a relationship can sometimes lead to mutually acceptable outcomes, it can also have significant downsides. When partners compromise, they often have to give up something that is important to

The Hidden Impact of Unresolved Emotional Trauma

Human beings are social creatures. Therefore, forming connections with others is essential to our well-being. However, while communication is often cited as the key to building solid relationships, another factor is equally important yet often overlooked. In our personal or professional lives, making meaningful connections requires more than effective communication.

Is people pleasing keeping you from having connected relationships?

Do you find yourself constantly putting others’ needs ahead of your own? Do you struggle to say “no” to things when you don’t want to do them? Do you struggle to share your opinions, needs, or desires? If so, you might be a people pleaser. While it’s natural to want

The Silent Treatment: What stonewalling in a relationship looks like

Ever wondered what stonewalling in a relationship looks like? Or the effects it has on a person? Or what to do if you’re the victim? If so, you’re in the right place.

Judging others: How to turn a judgy comment into connection

Have you ever said, “I’d NEVER do that” only to find yourself years later guilty of the exact thing you were judging? You’re not alone. This one small tweak helped me turn my judgy comments into connection.

“Don’t Avoid, Confront: Tips To Successful Difficult Conversations”

It would be dishonest of me to say I’ve never participated in a good bitch sesh about my husband. But because I’ve done it, I know how liberating it can be. Curious about why we do it and what the consequences are? Read on.

How Much Conflict is Normal?: How to Know When it is Time To Move On

Ever wondered if there was a definitive point at which you should consider leaving a relationship? If you’re anything like me, you might wonder if a relationship is even worth saving. Luckily, there is one thing you might consider looking at tobefore making that decision, and I’m going to share

Why Everything you know about Conflict is Wrong

Conflict is not only normal but also necessary in any relationship, no matter how uncomfortable it might feel. If you’ve ever believed in conflict being a bad thing, I challenge you to read along to see the tremendous benefits that can come from conflict.

Why Communication is THE MOST important part of a Relationship

Did you know that one of the major reasons that marriages fail is communication problems? But more specifically it’s the lack of communication. If you’ve ever wondered how to do it right, this article is for you.

Things you should stop doing in your 30s if you want to find quality relationships

Ever wondered why people say that your 30s are better than your 20s? A lot of it has to do with how we’ve matured over the decade of our 20’s that make life sweeter, experiences more meaningful and connections even better. Here’s 10 things you should stop doing in your

The Correlation Between Expectation & Vulnerability

You may think you are doing a good deed by placing expectations on other people, but you might be doing more damage than good. Find out why expectations can be more hurtful than beneficial if we aren’t careful.

Why Friendship is Hard as an Adult: My Struggle to Find Quality Friends

Maybe it’s just me, but finding the time to nurture friendships as an adult feels exhausting sometimes (and doesn’t that defeat the whole purpose of a friendship?)

For so long, I’ve wondered if my lack of deep, meaningful friendships (outside my marriage) is just the people I have chosen

How to Help Your Daughter Who is Depressed: How Normalizing Dysfunction Affects Our Children

Have you ever wondered how you can help your daughter who is feeling depressed and unhappy? Or maybe you yourself have struggled with this? If this topic sounds close to home, read this article to find out how to start to process of repair.

Valuing Differences In Relationships: How Diversity Can Strengthen Your Relationships

A healthy ecosystem is thriving in diversity. It’s made up of many species that work together for the good of the environment. Ultimately, diversity makes the environment thrive. Diversity in an ecosystem is the same as differences within a marriage. Can we learn something from this that can be applied

5 Ways to Jumpstart Self-Awareness to Have Better Relationships

Anything we want in life has to first come from a healthy internal state. This applies to anything from relationships, friendships, and parenting to careers. Everything we want in life hinges on our ability to have a healthy relationship with ourselves first. However, in today’s society, the importance of self-awareness

Ten Qualities to Look for in a Partner that Determine the Success of your Relationship

Rather than focusing on what we don’t want in relationships, today, we are getting honest about the qualities to look for and actively pursue in a man to ensure the success of your relationship.

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